
Today's drug of choice by most
Sometimes I feel pretty out of it when it comes to technology. I don’t have an iPhone (yet) and I barely use any of the features on my blackberry. I have accounts on facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter but I rarely login to them and when I do, I have no idea what I’m looking at or how to use the sites. I don’t even know why I have a twitter account because I don’t think I’ve ever used it. Maybe Jessica in my office is using it to send out Axxess announcements? Yes, now I recall that must be it.
Somehow these crazy sites know people who know people who somehow may know me. No doubt it’s cool, but do I really want to be “friends” with someone who I’m really not friends with? It’s kind of ridiculous. Yes – I do like to revisit old memories and see what people I’ve lost touch with are up to, but if it were important to keep in touch with them then I why didn’t I?
One hurdle for me is time. I simply don’t have a half hour a day to play around on facebook and I wonder why people I know, some of whom I respect post things like “doing laundry, then off to Trader Joe’s!” or “Happy Monday” – honestly, who gives a sh@!? Really? Don’t you have something better to do?! And the concept of the facebook “wall” is still very confusing to me.
The more important issue to me is that much of today’s technology, although cool , entertaining and convenient has replaced real human interaction. For example, I have a client who I cannot seem to reach on the phone to make an appointment, yet she’ll text me all the time. Another client sends me messages through facebook only, and since I check my facebook about once a month I often am a little late responding to her. She sent me a message in February saying let’s meet next week to talk about the Axxess ad. I finally saw the message in April and when I responded (by calling her) she was perplexed at why I hadn’t responded sooner. I guess I didn’t realize that for many people the facebook message feature is as real and utilized as email and phone.
Email I obviously can’t live without but it should not be a substitution for real interaction. If someone is upset with me, my staff or something my company has done and emails me I don’t email them back. I pick up the phone and talk to them. And if it’s a client, I get in the car and drive over to them. Nothing can or ever will replace direct human contact.
Furthermore, most of us are not able to type 300 words per minute. So a basic email between colleagues might take me 15 minutes to type while a phone call to discuss the topic would only need 4 minutes. I think people have forgotten this and become too accustomed to the new technologies. I can be more articulate in an email but tone is hard to read and I certainly can’t be as charismatic – that I can only accomplish in person!
Lastly, I think email or these other forms are often a cop-out. For example, a man meets a woman at a bar and they exchange info. The next day instead of calling her he texts her. The texting goes on for a week or two before they actually talk and that point he asks her out. What a panzy. Get her number and call her!
Regardless, the technology is now so advanced and changing so quickly that as a member of this society and particularly if you’re in business – you must keep up & learn these new ways of communicating or you may as well get lost. I just hope that as we do, we stay “unaddicted” and we try to use the technologies consciously – d0ing our best not to lose the one thing we as people thrive on – direct human interaction.